Top 10 tips for a successful 1st date

Going on a 1st date can be exhilarating and terrifying in equal measures. Hopefully these useful steps below will give you some ideas to make that 1st night out run smoothly.

Tip 1 - Pick the right time and place to meet
If you are nervous about the date going too far, you could always arrange to meet for lunch. It will give you the opportunity to get to know each other but also time is limited in case things don’t go well.

Tip 2 - Personal safety
You should remember to think about safety, especially if it’s a blind date or you are meeting someone that you have been chatting to on the internet. Let someone know where and when you are meeting.

Tip 3 - The cinema
Going to the cinema can be a good idea but that does limit the conversation. Maybe suggest going for a drink after; at least you will be able to talk about the film.

Tip 4 - Try not to build up your expectations
Some people go on dates to get to know people better, some may expect to get more out of it whilst others maybe looking for something casual. Go with the flow but don’t do anything that you don’t feel comfortable doing

Tip 5 - Making first impressions
There are certain practical things that you should do. 1st impressions count so wearing clean, ironed clothes would be a good start or spray on some of your favourite fragrance

Tip 6 - Listening and talking
You may be the kind of person who finds it easy to make conversation but try not to dominate. Actively listening will enable you to get to know lots about your date. If you are not comfortable making conversation try talking about family, music, work or special interests.

Tip 7 - Be yourself
Don’t feel pressured to be all singing, all dancing. Your date is with you for a reason – you! So try and relax and enjoy yourself. The more you look like you are enjoying yourself, the more attractive you will be

Tip 8 - Don’t come on too strong
It may make the other person feel awkward. Allow time for the date to develop and for you both to feel comfortable

Tip 9 - Body language
What you don’t say verbally actually says a lot, so think about your body language. Are you making eye contact and smiling or are you looking away with your arms folded?

Tip 10 - Don’t feel pressured into having sex on the 1st date
If you feel good about it then that’s fine but make sure you are doing this for you and not your date.