Friends

Coming out to friends is usually a young gay man's 1st step in coming out. It is a good idea to test their attitudes first, talk about gay men in the public eye and see what their thoughts are. If they come across as being homophobic it might not be a good idea to tell them just yet, you may want to try joining a gay youth group - you could meet other young gay men and gain support and advice from them

Being young and gay can sometimes make you feel quite isolated, You may feel like you are the only gay in the village. It is important at a time when you are coming to terms with your sexuality to have friends who can support and help sort your head out. Trust in friendships is vital, you may not want your friends to discuss your sexuality with anyone, so be clear about this from the outset.

Your friends should be able to help you decide what you want to do, they can be there to talk through any issues or concerns you might have and hopefully your friendship will become stronger as a result. They may also be able to support you if you decide to come out to your parents, or if you want to go out on the gay scene.

Coming out will give you the opportunity to meet lots of new people and have lots of new experiences but don't forget the friends that helped you on the way there.